Suitable punishment for 14yr old boy? My 14 yr old son was 5 minutes late for his 7pm curfew do u think this is a suitable punishment:
he must be diapered 24hrs a day and be treated like a baby..including drinking from a bottle, baby looking clothes when we go out and just a diaper at home, speaking like a baby, must crawl no walking etc. |
You are really user named PLAINWHITEDIAPER, aren't you?
Do you have so much filth in your brain that you actually have to post it as two different users?
Can't wait to see you on Dateline, you sick pervert!!!! |
Punishment for a 17 year old boy? i want to know how to give my son a punishment. Because he made fun of his four sisters while they were on their periods. i have spanked him and grounded him. my friend told my to make him wear a diaper so that he can get the feel what a pad feels like. And to make him use the diaper twice a day wherever his sisters are on their periods. |
Is there a dad in the picture? If so, it will be much better for you son if he gets a lecture from his dad, not from you, about respecting women.
If not, try to involve another male, a friend or relative.
Don't make him wear the diaper. That is humiliation bordering on abuse. |
Would you spank a 15 year old boy for doing drugs? ok so im 15 and a boy and its summer so i like to have fun wit my friends by doing drugs. so we were walking down the street by my friends house smoking and his mom caught me so she asked me to come inside for a second i did she closed the door grabbed me by the ear pulled me over her lap yanked my undies and pants off and took my flip flops off and started spanking me with them till i cryed and my butt was red. then she took me home to my aunt and right when i got in the door she took me on the baby changing table pulled off my undies and pants and put me in the diper postion the other mom held my legs down cause she knew it was going to hurt cause my butt was already tender then my aunt took the wooden spoon and spanked me man did i scream then i got in time out and if i rubbed my butt i got extra and i did so she put me back on the changing tableand spanked me more my butt was black and blue then she put me in the diaper punishment till the drugs were out she siad i dontdeservepants |
Pardner, I'm not superman so I definitely couldn't get him
over my knee for a spanking, so the answer is NO. |
Do you think humiliation is a valid form of punishment? I am a mom of five, I come from a large family myself and I was always taught respect and good manners at home. Lately I notice there are a lot of disrespectful and spoilt guyren around,they just seem to have everything and appreciate nothing.
I am always terrified my guyren will turn out that way too and as a result I often come down hard on them.
My oldest guy is thirteen and my youngest is one year old which leads to a hectic household and sometimes bad manners are not corrected.
I thought my oldest boy was at the age where he could be treated like an adult but on a trip to the mall last week he threw a tantrum and acted like a guy. I decided to treat him like a baby to teach him a lesson and treated him like my 1yr old for a day,he wore a diaper,was spoon fed his meals and was put down for a nap in the middle of the day. He was humiliated and has been very respectful since but do you think this is too drastic and weird a punishment. My husband does,advise please!!! |
I agree with most the people here.
Good for you for punishing your guy! There is NOTHING worst than a guy that has never been punished.
Now, here is what I think you did wrong. The dipper was a little too much. Spoon feeding…its allowable. The nap…great!
I also agree that if punishment continues like this, a guy MAY end up needing counseling. So proceed with CAUTION!
Now that you punished your son like that, you say he acts his age, and is respectful! Awesome! It worked! Next time he acts like a little guy, warn him…Tell him if he wants to act like a little guy, he WILL be treated like such. I am sure that will catch his attention, and he will act his age and be respectful. If not, warn him once more…and if he still ignores your warning, go in, and punish him just like you said you would. Thus he can’t say you were unfair, and also, next time, he will think twice before he acts up.
And for those that say this punishment was unfair, and WILL cause damage to the guy…I don’t think so. It wasn’t like the boy did something that was out of his control…(wetting the bed for example is something a guy can’t help. And if a guy is punished harshly for something they couldn’t help, then hey will resent, and be messed up later on) Your son CHOOSE to act like a little guy. Your punishment will not harm him unless you over do it.
And also…for those that say guyren resent their parents because they punished them…WELL DUH! The guy got caught! Of course the guy will be angry at the parent! Who likes to be punished? Parents aren’t meant to be the guy’s best friend; the parent is there to make a human being…and to teach this little guy respect, manors and a love for success and life. They are not there to allow the guy to run-a-muck and do as they please. Parents need to step up more, and NOT fear what society will think of them. (What happened to the days where spanking was ok? Kids back then KNEW respect and manors) ((YES! I know spanking CAN be over done…but that is rarer than you think!))
So, back to the main topic, I just want to say, what you did was correct, minus the diaper. Its not abuse, you don’t so this on a regular basis. You did this once, showing him that if he wants to act like a two year old, he will be treated as such! |
Is this a suitable punishment? I asked a question about my niece being wild and how to stop it. Well I used some of your ideas and she yelled this at me : "WHY SHOULD I???? THEY ARE GOOD FRIENDS AND I'LL CONTUNIE TO DO WHAT I WANT!!! IF I WANT TO SNEAK OUT I WILL! WHY DO YOU TREAT ME LIKE A BABY????I WISH I NEVER CAME TO LIVE WITH YOU!!!!I HATE YOU!!! YOU ARE A A**!"
At that point I was beyond angry. So I put a pacifier in her mouth and made her put on alll pink and a diaper (which she hates) and am now treating her like a baby. I feed her and pinch her cheeks and call her baby names and embarass her at school in front of friends. I don't let her go out alone. It's sort of like she's grounded.
Is this punishment too harsh or should I come up with something else? She's been using drugs and been hanging out with really bad people and has been partying and hanging out with this boy that I don't aprove of (I am her gaurdian).
If you don't think it's too harsh could you give me more ideas? |
| If your objective is to shame, embarrass, and maintain her self-image as a "baby", that is a very effective punishment. The reverse corollary to, "If she acts like a baby, I'll treat her like a baby, is "If I want her to act like an adult, I'll treat her as an adult." If your objective is to help her change behavior and grow into a responsible adult, there are better ways. People are motivated to change by seeking what they want, rather than avoiding what they don't want. Could you instead help her change behaviors and become more responsible by inspiring her toward a vision or a goal that she can get excited about? What does she love? What does she want to do as an adult? You can help her decide to start now. |
A suitible punishment for my son? I have a son who is 14 years old and he has just annoyed me so much that i finally decided to step in. Instead of being mommys little boy he is mommys little girl now. I have bought him a bunch of girl clothe from a cheap clothe store in town. During the day when he is at school he has to only wear panties and a bra, but when he gets home its off with the boy clothe and on with the girl clothe. I am even thinking about buying him a wig to go with it. I have been doing this for 2 weeks now and he has been the best he has ever been. I probably will keep it up till he goes to college to make sure he doesnt become a pain again. Also to make the punishment worse is that during the night and on weekends he has to wear a diaper. During the week i make him take it off during the day for school, but on weekends he has to wear it and use it. I told him no toilet on weekends. He lets me change him and baby him. I want to hear about other parents who take similar actions when discilplining. |
| I hope you are guyding. That is abusive. You are psycho. You are screwing him up forever. People like you make me sick. |
Is this a bad punishment? To make a boy wear diapers and girl clothing for cussing out his girlfriend and sister because I hate that I want to be rated not judged I ask it bad once |
| This question has been asked before, so go to bed troll and don't forget to put on your goodnite. |
Are diapers a good way to stop a 13 year old boy from masturbating? I caught my 13 year old son masturbating. If he can't control himself, then he's basically like a baby so diapers are appropriate as a punishment. Also it will prevent him from touching himself there. If he removes the diaper, I will know, since I use extra tape that will be obvious if it's untaped. The only time he'll have the diaper off is when I change him and then I'll be watching him. I homeschool him, so this won't be a problem. We're just a day into the punishment which will last a week. Do you think that's the right amount of time? |
| Since all 5 of your questions have been about diapers, my guess is that you have a fetish. |
My son is very disrespectful to me. Should I have done forced him to wear a diaper and be treated like a baby? You see he yells at me, calls me an idiot, tells me my cooking is terrible and so on. One day I got sick of it. i told him I was going out to the store be back in a little bit. But when I came back I had an unusual "surprise" for my son. I told him to sit down in the chair and take off his pants. With a little resistance I got him to do it. Then I pulled the "surprise" out of the bag and then he got up and ran into his room. So then I got my husband to go and get him, and hold him down while I diapered him. He said he hated me. Once I explained why he was getting his punishment he all of a sudden changed his attitude and was polite. He took the teasing from his sisters and just went on with his day. By the way when he is at home he walks around in just a diaper. So a month went by and I thought he had suffered enough. But then two weeks later he came home with a letter from his teacher. So I told him to get his underwear and throw it in the trash can. Then I went out and got a sippy cup. He now drinks milk from a sippy cup and wears diapers. I am going to let him drink like a big boy again. He will continue to wear the diapers. |
| No that's really immature of you. But punish him for all of that just in a more civil way |
Spanking as Punishment while Potty Training? My husband's friend was over last night and was talking about his 4 year old son (young 4). He told us that he had spanked him that morning for pooping in his diaper during the night. This little boy isn't fully potty trained through the night yet. He's had a hard time getting a hold of the whole peeing in the potty bit and wasn't fully daytime trained until he had turned 4. I know some guys just take longer than others and that nighttime potty training is a whole other ball game. This friend was pretty upset that the boy woke up with a poopy diaper. He even yelled at him after spanking him, telling him that he knows better. If the boy is still in diapers overnight, does that not mean he's not fully trained yet and that accidents are to be expected? How is it then fair to punish a guy for an accident? I was appalled at his behavior and it was all I could do to bite my tongue and not say anything. Would you have said something? If I hear of something like this again, *should* I say something? |
The man is an idiot, if the guy did so at 8, I can understand a spanking. Yet the idea that he would yell at his guy in any case would have made me blow my whistle. Yet the thing is, it is your husband's friend and I would have a talk about your husband about it.
As far as someone speaking up, while you have the right to say something, if your husband did it would carry more weight simply because the man is his friend. Just as I would assume if your husband spoke up to your friend, when your friend is not a friend to you two as a couple, but just to you. |