Men, an embarrassing question, Mature Answers Pls? Ok, so I have been out of town for a few days.
Tonight I was on my computer, and you know how when you start typing something in your browser, it will fill out with something from the history? It did that, and it was a porn site.
Now before I go any further, I know my husband looks at porn and I don't care at all, so that isn't the issue.
I went to it curious as to what he was looking at and it was a tranny thing. I was kinda like wtf, so I pulled up the browsing history, and he looked at like 10 sites, and 3 of them were tranny stuff, the rest just normal.
My husband has never given any indication to me he would like that sort of thing, and we are very open about sexual stuff.
So my question is, do you sometimes look at stuff just out of curiosity, or is this not normal? I am wondering if men just do this sometimes.
Mature, honest answers appreciated.
Also, I have seen sites he was looking at in the past and never anything out of the ordinary. |
| I don't think it is normal. Take his behind to church. |
Is a 2005 Ford Explorer a good reliable suv for a 17 year old? Here is the info:www.smithautos.com/VehicleDetails... heard that in 2005 the explorer transmissions were redesigned so im not worried about tranny problems but is everything else good He has great driving experience and is very mature |
| i have a 2005 xlt 2wd explorer, and never had a problem with it. just keep an ear open for "the rattle"... the timing chain guides occasionally break/come loose if you use the wrong oil. only use the oil specified in the owners manual, i cannot stress this enough!!!! if you hear it rattle, turn it off and call the dealership!! |
Proper techinique for driving a standard tranmission. Hubby says I'm doing it wrong. I own a 94 Chevy Camaro. What I do is when I'm slowing down, I clutch, then put the car in the gear I'm intending to use after I slow or stop and hold the clutch down while I'm waiting or I clutch and put the car in neutral and release the clutch until I'm ready to go. My hubby says I'm riding the clutch. Is this good or bad? I can change gears very smoothly with no problem, but he doesn't like me clutching style. I had to teach myself to drive a standard many years ago and this is only my 2nd standard car. What am I doing wrong? He's a trucker, but I know the clutching is different between an 18 wheeler and a 5 speed. Any advice from you professionals out there to help me settle this dispute and maybe save my clutch and pressure plate and tranny? I'd appreciate only mature answers and none of the I'm too old for this kind of car insults. It's just a car. I love it and don't want to tear it up. My first manual tranny was a Mustang and replaced a clutch with in 3 months. I thank you for helping. God Bless you. |
You are only 'riding the clutch' if it is partially engaged which means you have it half way up or down...
If your foot is on the clutch and it is completely down on the floor, your clutch is NOT engaged whiich means you are not riding it..only when you start moving and you are letting up on it but don;t let it up all the way..this is riding the clutch...a good rule of thumb is either have it depressed all the way down or have your foot off it....when you start moving keep your foot off it as little as possible... |
I really thought I was gay.? It all happened when i was browsing through the internet and stumbled to a ts link pic and then began looking at video's of tranny porn. It seem to arouse me more than female porn. I would start off watching teen porn then mature and then next thing you know im on the tranny porn. This began to be more and more frequent. I dont know if it was because the drugs I was on that made me more horny or not. Well anyways 3-4 years has passed and I have also cut down some what on my drug use after getting fired from my career job.
Since 2005 I had formed a habit where I would be high and by the end of the night forcing myself to sleep I would masturbate to shemale porn. I used to kill myself with guilt and even thought of suicide because I thought I might be really gay.
I developed anxiety after a while and began to isolate from the world. Times when I would go out to party or just hang with my friend I would catch myself uncontrolled staring at my friends crotch. This was freaking me out. I started taking Xanax to help my anxiety but after awhile that didnt work anymore. It just made it worse...so I stopped the xanax finally.
My family and friends would ask if I was gay. I would always say no cause I was;nt really for sure. So my friends assumed that I was just gay and that I was oblivious about it not aware yet.
Since I was in rehab for my drug addiction I took the time to come out and told my conselor that I'm gay and I get high n ****** up to jerk off to shemale porn. She asked if I ever experimented with a ts. I replied no but I will now. So I did...I was turned off by a few because they didnt look that feminine or wasnt as hot like the internet one's. I finally talked myself into doing this after a gram of coke and some xanax. I finally did it and now even worst shape than before. It took me sometime to gather myself and relfect on what I had done.
Well that almost a year has past and that I accumulated 3 ts' encounters. Being off and on drugs through the years... I'm still not 100% sure.
Now in 2009 I still continue to use drugs. But now for some reason I dont get really turned on by shemale porn. . All the feelings I had has or I think disappeared. I try to force them back by using more drugs but its just not the same. I dont enjoy the shemale porn as much anymore.
My anxiety has gone and even the uncontrollable crotch glancing has stopped. I feel some what normal again. I dont have a problem talking to people anymore or hiding my face under my sunglasses.
I can even take gay jokes and throw it back at them with out a problem.
For some reason I dont feel gay.. What the hell is wrong with me. I am in my late late 20's...
is this common or is the gay **** finally taking a break.. I hope it dosent come back. |
I don't think you're gay or even bi. People can look at any kind of porn and feel aroused without actually wanting to have sex with the kind of people in the porn. People usually know if they are gay/bi by the time they are out of high school (I knew when I was 14 that I was a lesbian). Some are older and married before they figure it out, but they usually come out because there's an individual of the same sex that they KNOW they're attracted to. Being gay/bi is about both love and sex. Do you want to find love with a man? If not, you're straight. It's that simple. Anxiety makes you feel all kinds of ****.
I'm no shrink, put I think you have "Pure O" or purely obsessional obsessive-compulsive disorder. I have it too. Google it and get help! Especially for the drugs. |
Baby face! sick of ppl thinking i'm younger than i am? i don't understand...i'm 15 turning 16 and everyone thinks i'm 12-13. I'm mature and i'm intelligent, but i have a petite physique and a so-called "baby face" which makes me look younger... i know a lot of short girls who look old....but i got cursed with the petite frame and young looking face. People tell me i'm beautiful, and not to sound conceited but i think i'm attractive.... i just wished i look more my age....what makes someone have a "baby face?" what features make up one? and how do you look more mature, i don't want to wear slutty outfits and wear tranny looking makeup in order to do so...HELP! |
| I have the same problem and im 22. one time a lady at the toll booth asked me if i should even be driving and said i looked 13 lol! I don't think u should be worried about it i know its frustrating when u are young because we are all in a hurry to grow up at that age but just embrace the fact that when u are 30 u are going to look 20 and so on. there are people out there who pay thousands of dollars just to look a few years younger(like my next client lol) Just keep up your mature attitude and self respect for not wanting to dress slutty to seem older and have fun being 16 cuz u only get to be 16 once! |
Is he bi or straight?? I've been dating this guy recently, and I can't tell if he's bi or not. What is your personal opinion? Also, I can't date a guy with bisexual tendencies, I just won't.
- He wears thongs mostly (one in neon pink)
- He has lots of anal sex toys
- He shaves most of his body hair
- He has a few girls' flip flops (but otherwise, he wears males' shoes and clothes)
- He has no male friends, just female friends
- Recently, I found tranny porn on his computer
...... other than the above, he acts like a typical "straight" guy.
Please be honest and mature with answers! |
i would say that he is gay but he might also be just bi ,, you never know with some guys , most guys that are gay have all female but some will also be as straight as any other guy until he says he guy or bi .
I would just talk with this guy and find out what his story is before you go anywhere else with him and find out for sure . |
Bi or straight? I've been dating this guy recently, and I can't tell if he's bi or not. What is your personal opinion? Also, I can't date a guy with bisexual tendencies, I just won't.
- He wears thongs mostly (one in neon pink)
- He has lots of anal sex toys
- He shaves most of his body hair
- He has a few girls' flip flops (but otherwise, he wears males' shoes and clothes)
- He has no male friends, just female friends
- Recently, I found tranny porn on his computer
...... other than the above, he acts like a typical "straight" guy.
Please be honest and mature with answers! |
| dude are you serious. You cant judge from those signs alone? He's GAY. |
I need help from guys please? okay guys i have a 95 honda civic ex coupe automatic...i really want to learn how to drive a stick but i have tired and i feel like am going to tear the tranny out of the car... i dont stall out i just am scared my boyfriend is teaching me in his 350z and i deff. dont wanna tear that up lol but anyways if you could give me some pointers on how to drive one, and anothe thing is i have a mini me swap in my car and i just put a new intake on it and seems a little faster what else can i do to make it faster. thanks and no smart butt comments....act mature i really need help with this |
| These guys are right. Also, you could go and rent a car with a clutch, that way you can tear it up and not worry about it. That's what my dad did to teach me. Also, most of us civic owners care less about going fast and more about handling, so coilover springs are a nice addition. To really go faster, add a turbo. Thing is, with a civic, if you want to go fast you will save money buying an old v-8. I love my civic, but it is not supposed to go fast. It is supposed to handle well and get you places with minimal gas consumption. |
How do I ask someone to forgive me and take me back? I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. Its been 2 days and from the minute I did it I regretted it. I am devasted and I havent spoken to him since. But have spoken to his mom, sister in law and brother who are all rooting for us to get back together. This is his friend mature grownup relationship. We broke up cause I was feeling stress because of a job loss, family issues and a broken tranny in my car. I inenveratly took it out on him.
I want him back but dont know how to go about asking for his forgivness without seeming insane and desperate ala' John Cusack in Say Anything.
Any help? He is 26, so not a younger guy. I am 26 also. |
| You need to give it some time then call him and make small conversation over the cell or AIM him or text him or which ever is the easiest for you.I did this to my now ex a couple of times especially during summer school but we met over coffee or dinner or a drink and started to chat.Try to sound not so desperate because otherwise you are pushing him away even more with out knowing it or being clingy because no guy wants a desperate or clingy person in their life.If you are ready to talk with him call him and ask him if he also would like to hear what you have to say and if so go ahead and if not then respect his wish because if you keep on pushing to get your way he will just push you even more away. It takes more than 2 days to calm down,think things thru and so forth so if it were me give it another idk a day or two to make sure that you do not rush too fast. Then if you two agree that you want to get back together make sure than you leave your personal life where it belongs,your work at work,your finances in their place and so forth otherwise you will take it out on him again.I wish you the best of luck and oh yes when you are stressed out do something productive such as yoga,clean the house,cook a nice dinner to show appreciation or enjoy some time by yourself. |
Is taste in porn reflective of orientation? HONEST MEN PLEASE RESPOND...? Found mature, chubby, bi, animal and the norm T&A porn (about divided equally on hubby's history (wasn't sneaking!!!- auto filled in addy bar and the rest WAS looked into after I saw Bi/tranny and we're married....) Thoughts? Honestly not interested in any narrow minded views- I have looked at this all myself and total diff in real life and real interest. Just wondering what the MEN who look at porn a lot think. Thanks
BTW- asked and he seemed comfy saying- looked at all the norm and prob look too much so looked for 'different'. Sex is usually pretty good. FYI |
| Everyone has their own views about this but in my opinion all porn is stimulating. It has nothing to do with orientation. Of course gay people like to look at gay porn but I've been on both sides of the fence and I like both straight & gay & everything else in between. Men tend to be very visual creatures so porn is exciting. Of course there is always an exception to the rule. |